The hardest part of being the man of the house isn’t making the tough calls; it’s carrying the weight of them in total silence. Over the past forty-eight hours, life felt like a high-speed collision between the family I am building and the family I came from. When two sides pull in opposite directions, the man standing in the middle doesn’t just get stretched—he takes every hit from both sides. My wife and I came to a decision recently. To us, it is grounded, practical, and a necessary step forward for our future. But the extended family—the relatives who have an opinion on everything—are entirely against it. The backlash was immediate. I expected friction, sure, but living through the noise of constant disapproval still wears on the nerves. Here is the truth I’ve had to make peace with: whenever I needed real backing in life, the support was zero. More often than not, the advice I received wasn’t meant to lift me up; it was meant to plant seeds of doubt...
Hi, I am sohel shaikh a person who can be only defined by many as robot but let me tell you that i do have emotions and i also feel many things but to show it openly has been kind of very tough for me. very few have seen that side of me. i do have lots of questions and i do have lots of thoughts but currently sitting at my office desk and typing this the first though come to mind is finish your work. Most describe me as emotion less and some think i do have a raw face which is not welcoming at all. now how this all this happened and how I became such is something worth knowing and I will start journaling my life. so this is just a start and we shall start doing this every single day. hope to see you soon tomorrow - enjoy your day. you can see my video life on youtube by just typing sohel_x22.