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 Hi, I am sohel shaikh a person who can be only defined by many as robot but let me tell you that i do have emotions and i also feel many things but to show it openly has been kind of very tough for me. very few have seen that side of me. i do have lots of questions and i do have lots of thoughts but currently sitting at my office desk and typing this the first though come to mind is finish your work. Most describe me as emotion less and some think i do have a raw face which is not welcoming at all. now how this all this happened and how I became such is something worth knowing and I will start journaling my life. so this is just a start and we shall start doing this every single day. hope to see you soon tomorrow - enjoy your day. you can see my video life on youtube by just typing sohel_x22.

youtube link   Finding Calm in the Chaos: A Day with Laila, Candid Frames, and the Daily Hustle Some days move at a relentless pace. Between early commutes, packed schedules, and back-to-back work discussions, it is easy to let the entire day slip by in a blur of motion. What keeps me grounded through all of it are the quiet, unscripted moments tucked between the noise—especially the ones spent at home with Laila. Starting the day with my pets brings an immediate sense of ease. Laila has this effortless way of slowing down time. Whether she is lounging in a pocket of warm sunlight, curiously inspecting the camera lens, or just keeping me company while I get ready to head out, her calm presence sets the tone for everything that follows. Candid photography has become one of my favorite creative outlets, and capturing her natural, unbothered expressions always reminds me to appreciate the little details we so often rush past. Of course, reality calls soon enough. Transitioning from th...

Hello everyone, Thanks for the response on the last blog Love in 21st century. 12th July 2017 exactly one year passed as my mom left this world. Death a full stop to life or you can say end to the struggles, ups and downs of one's life. You all might be thinking that, what can i write about death ? Many might have idea that what i am going to write or many of you have actually gone through it. Many people are still alive till 85 but died by the age of 25. you might be thinking what i am trying to say, the reality is that there is one incident in every person whole life that just kill the real him/her and making him/her a walking dead soul. when we human face such scenario in our whole life we get so tensed and pissed that we don't think anything beyond that point and hardly very few comes out of it and even if they come out of it there is still that place in their heart where they miss that person so bad that when they remind themselves it just hurts and the way it hu...

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Hello everyone, This was something always on my mind as a kid like to get big as soon as possible handling responsibilities, taking decision, earning my own money and doing what I feel to do without any suggestion or advice. Sometime memories sneak out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks ! Those were the days when we used to run like there is no stopping point, when we use to save money whole week so that we can party with friends, when we use to fight with no fear and play crazily at ground getting total dirty still never mind that. I tried to grow up fast, and its not fun! You should stay kid as long as possible! Coming home from anywhere  the first question, where is mom? Getting confused when being asked who is best mom or dad ? Mom and dad were like world to us. when we need cash dad was like Atm machine and when we are hungry at home mom was the best chef ever. they have gone from my sight but never gone from my heart. " isn't it funny day by day nothing changes, but wh...

Expectation. Expectation the word described by Wikipedia as a “strong belief that something will happen or be the case” We human being tends to think too much or expect from people that they might help us or they might be with us forever. We tend to do so much for them sometime sacrificing our own dream, don’t we? This expectation just kills us, we have to understand we came here alone and we just have to spread love and we shouldn’t expect anything in return. Expectations from family, friends and soul mate have always came the opposite way that’s what life tests you with. How strong we stand alone is all that matters and when we expect something we get hurt. Don’t expect things to happen. It’s better to feel surprise, than be disappointed. Don’t get to attached to people, because attachment lead to expectation and expectation lead to disappointment. Always keep your expectation high on yourself but low on people. I was just missing my mom it’s almost 4month she left ...

The Journey. Journey have you ever heard some one saying enjoy the journey ? Destination give us immense pleasure once we reach but does journey give ? Sometime i just sit and think we always want something or other in life to be achieve and we work for it but in that process we end up enjoying our life. I been working from almost 6 years have achieved many things which i want in material needs but not what my soul needs. The happiness is there to some extent but then again we get something in our mind and we start working for it or some kind of problem comes in our life that,we forget what we were doing ? and for what ? After 2 years of working life a computer earn money and come home no dream no ambition just need money i realized i have lost something precious. Can you guess what i lost in 2 years ? I have achieved what i wanted but still i wasn't that happy which i should be. Few ups came and many down came on monetary wise i was on good side but fro...

Life. The more simple it is the more you love it. Few laugh and say it, few laugh and ignore it same as if a clever man tries to correct the mistake and a wise man try to ignore it. This is the problem for everyone one even you and me but sometime you have to let time deal with it. Who knows we will get time to laugh again so let's enjoy this moment. Try to understand and forgive it might save your life relation better than being Alone. Learn to swipe the tears of people by bringing smile on their face. Put a trace on some one heart for lifetime. Try your best and let time decide you have to trust time than your anger. You cannot change your future, you can change your habits. And surely habits will change your future. REMEMBER THIS . BEFORE YOU PRAY - BELIEVE BEFORE YOU SPEAK - LISTEN BEFORE YOU SPEND - EARN BEFORE YOU WRITE - THINK BEFORE YOU QUIT - TRY BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVE NEVER FORGET WHAT YOU ARE.THE REST OF THE WORLD WILL NOT. WEAR IT LIKE ARMOR,AND...

There was a business executive who was deep in debt and could see no way out. Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy. Suddenly an old man appeared before him. “I can see that something is troubling you,” he said. After listening to the executive’s woes, the old man said, “I believe I can help you.” He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, “Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time.” Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come. The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world! “I can erase my money worries in an instant!” he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give h...

Tickets to Heaven There once was a sick child named John. He had a rare and serious illness, and all the doctors confirmed that he would not live long , though they couldn't say exactly how long it would be. John spent long days in the hospital, saddened by not knowing what would happen, until one day a clown who was passing by saw how sad John was and came over to say: "How come you're standing there like that? Haven't they told you about the Heaven for sick children? John shook his head, but continued listening intently . -"Well, it's the best place you could ever imagine, much better than heaven for parents or anyone else. They say it's like that to compensate children for having being sick . But to enter it there is one condition." -"What is it?" asked John, concerned. - "You cannot die without having filled the bag ." -"The bag?" -"Yes, yes. The bag. A large grey bag like this, ...

Life Lesson for an  Entrepreneur .  In Delhi, there was a Samosa vendor. His shop was in front of a Big company. His Samosa was so tasty. Most of the employees use to eat that samosa at lunch time. One day, a Manager came to that guy selling samosas. While he was eating samosa he comes in the fun mood. He asks a question: You have maintained your shop so nicely and have good management skills. Don’t you think that you are wasting your talent and time by selling just Samosas? Think, if you were working like me in any big company, you would have been a manager like me, isn't it? Poor samosa guy, he smiled at the manager and said awesome lines. Sir, I thought my work is better than your work. Do u know why? 10 years back I used to sell samosa in tokari (Leaf basket). At same time you got this job. That time I was earning Rs. 1,000 in a month and your salary was 10K. In this 10 years of journey, we did progress a lot. I owned a shop and became famous 'samosa-wala'...

The Destiny. Where does the life end? What are we battling for? Happiness, Food, love, shelter, fame what are all these?   Too many question running down the mind. It’s a cruel world for sure but what are we doing to change it. One man loss is another man gain. The one who has less is always looking for more and the one who has more always looking for peace life. Why don’t we just get happy in what we have?   Why don’t we make resource of things what we have?   So much in these world for everyone need but not for everyone greed. One thing   is for sure where there is something good something bad will always be there this human race could have survived on good deeds but the greediness of human will not allow it to survive. I am not a millionaire I am a normal human being like all of you but I am looking for happiness in whatever I have now. I am stuck in darkness of life seeing just a spark of light walking toward it as a hope that it might change th...

10 success rules by Sir APJ Abdul Kalam 1. Keep Learning. 2. Leader Must Know How to Handle Failure. 3. Peace Comes From Strength. 4. Team Management. 5. Vision. 6. Take Decision. 7. Inspire by your work. 8. Love your work. 9. Work with great people. 10. Love your art. Some Quotes by Sir APJ Abdul Kalam “Man needs his difficulties because they are necessary to enjoy success” “Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work” “You have to dream before your dreams can come true” “We should not give up and we should not allow the problem to defeat us” “Climbing to the top demands strength, whether it is to the top of Mount Everest or to the top of your career”

Learn to Appreciate Once upon a time, there was a man who was very helpful, kindhearted, and generous. He was a man who will help someone without asking anything to pay him back. He will help someone because he wants to and he loves to.  One day while walking into a dusty road, this man saw a purse, so he picked it up and noticed that the purse was empty. Suddenly a woman with a policeman shows up and gets him arrested. The woman kept on asking where did he hide her money but the man replied, “It was empty when I found it, Mam.” The woman yelled at him, “Please give it back, It’s for my son’s school fees.”  The man noticed that the woman really felt sad, so he handed all his money.  He could say that the woman was a single mother.  The man said, “Take these, sorry for the inconvenience.”  The woman left and policeman held he man for further questioning. The woman was very happy but when she counted her money later on, it was doub...

Evening Dinner with a Father A son took his old father to a restaurant for an evening dinner.  Father being very old and weak, while eating, dropped food on his shirt and trousers.  Other diners watched him in disgust while his son was calm. After he finished eating, his son who was not at all embarrassed, quietly took him to the washroom, wiped the food particles, removed the stains, combed his hair and fitted his spectacles firmly.  When they came out, the entire restaurant was watching them in dead silence, not able to grasp how someone could embarrass themselves publicly like that.  The son settled the bill and started walking out with his father. At that time, an old man amongst the diners called out to the son and asked him, “Don’t you think you have left something behind?”. The son replied, “No sir, I haven’t”. The old man retorted, “Yes, you have!  You left a lesson for every son and hope for every father”. The restaurant went silent. ...

Maturity – how could you describe it? Maybe it is the ability to resist some small whims or need for immediate reward and better choosing the actions that will pay off some time later. Maturity is also a well-measured persistence, knowing your true goals and seeking them despite of obstacles on your way. It is the ability to use your skills and knowledge and do more than is expected. And also it is having a sense what is worth fighting and what is not. Mature person is able to control his anger during conflicts or other unpleasant situations. He solves the occurring problems with constructive approach instead of complaining. He knows that he cannot control everything, thus sometimes you just need something to let go. Maturity is also humility, when person is able to admit his mistakes, forget his pride and at the same time preserve his dignity. Maturity is your ability to laugh at yourself. Mature person is responsible and reliable. His words always go along with his actions. H...

A long time ago there was a boy. He was smart, talented and handsome. However, he was very selfish and his temper was so difficult, that nobody wanted to be friends with him. Often he got angry and said various hurtful things to people around him. The boy‘s parents very concerned about his bad temper. They considered what they could do and one day the father had an idea. He called his son and gave him a hammer and a bag of nails. The father said: „Every time you get angry, take a nail and drive into that old fence as hard as you can.” The fence was very tough and the hammer was heavy, nevertheless the boy was so furious that during the very first day he has driven 37 nails. Day after day, week after week, the number of nails was gradually decreasing. After some time, the boy started to understand that holding his temper is easier that driving nails into the fence. One day the boy didn‘t need hammer and nails anymore as he learned to hold his temper perfectly. So he came to h...